It might seem strange that I tried to call them before knowing who was having an affair with him. I wanted to figure it out. You see, the "first" affair which I put in quotes here to let you know that I understand that this occurrence could just be the "first" I knew of in … Continue reading You Can’t Prove It
The “Second” Time Around
Forwarded the email
Some of you will recognize the error of some of my actions and choices way before I finish the story, but what did I do after I saw the strange email in my work inbox that morning? I called my husband and told him about it. I also responded. The man emailed me back very … Continue reading Forwarded the email
Sight of the Island
When I wrote in March 2015, I couldn't look forward and know with certainty where I would be today. Here goes. I never really did birthday parties for myself. Being sung to with cake all ablaze often brought feelings of anxiety for me, so if it could be avoided, I would. I mean all hanging out … Continue reading Sight of the Island
And yet, sometimes healing must happen alone
I let time lapse and not shared the middle of the story with you. Yet, here I am to say hope and healing are yours to have if you want, even if that means divorcing the person who had an affair/s and healing on your own. Trying must be a two sided coin, a joining … Continue reading And yet, sometimes healing must happen alone